“It is not the strongest of
species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to
change.” – Charles Darwin
I
think what Charles Darwin is saying here is that humanity needs to remain
flexible in life. By staying flexible and working with what comes our way
instead of fighting the changes, we as people will have the ability to adapt to
new situations. This will prevent undue stress that is mainly created in our
mind. Which brings me to the next quote:
“The mind is everything. What
you think you become.” – Buddha
I
agree with Buddha! The mind is a very powerful thing and a major part of our
lives. If more people would focus on their own thoughts and in what way are
they thinking about things, I am confident that these people would have more
control over their thoughts and hopefully they will realize that all the
negative thoughts they have are making their lives more negative. So think nice
and positive thoughts that way nice and positive things will be in your life.
“You can’t do anything to
change the past, but by changing your thoughts and actions in the present
moment, the future is yours to create.” – Tom Venuto
Many
times people get caught up thinking about the past and what could have been.
Instead it would be much more beneficial to live in the moment and focus on
your present thoughts and actions. Making the appropriate changes to increase
the positivity in your life will also increase your overall happiness. We all
have the power to pave a better future for ourselves. All we need to do is let
go of the past and focus on the here and now.
“There is only one way to
happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power
of our will.” – Epictetus
This
is a very true statement. By trying to control something is truly outside of
our control is utterly useless and can create a great deal of stress. By
letting go of things outside of our immediate control we are left with only the
things we can control which lessens our stress levels and increases overall
happiness. This is something I have been working on in myself for the past few
years and I have made tremendous progress. I have felt a great weight lifted
off my shoulder and I feel much freer to just be and that makes me happy!
“Love is that condition in
which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert A.
Heinlein
Love
is about giving and very little to do with receiving. I think it is much better
to give your heart and soul into the love you have for others. There are
different kinds of love, but one thing remains the same across the board and
that is the fact of caring more about that other person’s happiness above your
own. I agree with this ideal of love and what it means to love someone else.
“Life is like riding a
bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” – Albert Einstein
Life
and time do not stop for anyone or anything. The only way to succeed in life is
to keep moving with the flow of life. It’s important to me to improve my life
and keep moving forward. I try my best to stay focused on the now in order to
pave the way for the future that I desire. If you try to stop then you will most
likely crash. Crashing in life is not a failure, but merely a setback that
takes times and energy to fix. I have had my share of setbacks and in fact I
had one this year. It has been a hard year for me, but I have picked myself
back up and I am once again moving forward with my life. It may be hard, but
sometimes the best thing in life is to keep moving despite the hardships.
“Courage is the first of human
qualities because it is the quality which guarantees all others.” – Winston
Churchill
Courage
is a valuable attribute for anyone to have and it is much needed. In order to
keep moving in life, and to be flexible with life’s different changes, it is
important to have courage. By having courage, we as people are strong and able
to overcome any and all adversities that we are faced with. Sometimes I
struggle with having courage, but I seek out little reminders and support that
signal to me that I am able to handle this situation. Nothing in life lasts
forever and this tough situation will soon pass. This is a statement I tell
myself when things get really hard and I feel like giving up. By talking to
myself and reassuring myself, I give myself the courage to continue and not
give up.
“Life is 10% what happens to
me and 90% of how I react to it.” – Charles Swindoll
While
it is true that things happen in life that are outside our control, the truth
is there is something we can always control and that is how we react. The best
reaction is to act with careful thought. Focusing your thoughts on what you are
about to do or say will help you make sure you are doing the right things. You
can always be in control of yourself and I believe the first step to this is to
control your thinking.
“I’ve learned that people will
forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never
forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou
Sometimes
words carry heavy weight and can mean the world to people, but what they
remember isn’t what you said word for word, but rather they remember the
feeling those words invoked in them. Having someone help you to feel a strong
emotion makes for a strong memory. Sometimes memories are all we have left and I
think it’s highly important to leave your loved ones with good memories and
that means creating strong (hopefully good) feelings between you. Sometimes the
simplest thing, such as smiling, can make a huge difference in the way
interactions take place. I hope people become more aware of the affect they can
have on others as well as the feelings they are helping to create in others.
Let’s try to make happy positive feelings!
“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took
the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.” – Robert Frost
I
can remember the many times my mom would ask me ‘why must you always take the
harder path?’ and I remember thinking to myself that I wasn’t trying to take
hard roads, but I didn’t believe I could just take other people’s word on what
I should do. I had to learn for myself and make my own mistakes. Trust me I
have made plenty of them, but I am grateful for all of my life’s experiences. I
have learned and grown into the woman I am today, because I had refused to take
the easy route of following in someone else’s footsteps. I wanted to create
my own road and travel down it on my own. I had always been more
individualistic and I felt I needed to be myself. By taking that “hard” road,
the one less traveled, I have become strong and I have been fortunate to have
many great opportunities for both success and learning.
What
are some quotes you find to be inspirational?
Have
you been taking the road less traveled? What are the pros and cons to taking
the harder road?
These are great quotes. I tend to quote Chuck Swindoll most often. You can't control what other people do, but you can control how you react to it. It come sin handy with parenting!!
ReplyDeleteAwesome quotes! Thanks for the inspiration - coming at a very good time for me!
ReplyDeleteI think Tom Venuto's quote stuck with me the most. Such a great roundup of inspiration!
ReplyDeleteThis one is my favourite:
ReplyDelete“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert A. Heinlein
It's sit is hard for you to be, more because they are so grouchy lol!